'Time to get to work!': Fed up homeowner builds fence to block neighbor's 3-year-old neglected child from entering his property and feeding his dogs literal garbage

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    [Would I be wrong for] for purposefully blocking child's view from my yard/dogs?

    'I really can't stand this kid but I feel sorry for him.'
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    Childless person here. My neighbor's 3yo is a handful.. we've had issues with him throwing food, garbage, jewelry, stuffed animals, toys, ect into our yard. The parents won't do
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    anything about it, I've told the child to stop.. we remain friendly enough with the neighbors but the child has been a source of stress on our neighborly relationship.
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    We have a gap in our shared fence where kiddo loves to visit/sticking his hands and face against the fence to interact with me and my dogs.
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    I don't enjoy these forced interactions and I don't want him calling for my dogs and coaxing them with food/toys/whatever he has in his hands. He has given them
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    things that are not dog safe and I'm always having to pick up pieces of chewed food garbage and wrappers, which I find disgusting and disturbing that they could eat something toxic.
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    My ask of WIBTA stems from I know the kid enjoys these interactions... His mom is not super interactive with him and he is left to entertain himself until the father and brothers get home. I really can't stand this kid but I feel sorry for him.
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    I want to block the fence strategically with a trellis and by blocking my dogs from the fence line by installing a secondary fence. I am doing this under the guise of new landscaping, but the overall goal is the block this child from my yard.
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    Background: we have had several incidents where the kid came into my property (front yard) unattended and drew on my car and house with a permanent marker.. issues where he broke a planter.. the parents view it as him being a
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    child and I really shouldn't have a problem with their kid doing anything because he is a kid. That's really why I am wondering if it would seem like
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    an obvious move to block the kid.. just trying to avoid more drama. Sorry if that sounds immature to some people, it's hard beefing with your neighbors lol
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    Update: This blew up a bit, but I wanted to thank everyone for the tips and advice... And most of all, the overwhelming response that I would indeed not be an a h le. I was expecting the opposite response, or parents telling me that this is normal... I'm glad
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    that my experiences are not normal and there are good parents out there!! We have a camera in the back to help watch the dogs but as many suggested, we will get one in the front of the house to capture any wandering/leaving half
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    eaten food/future damages to our property. The father tries to keep the kid in line, but the SAH mom does nothing to keep him in check.. I feel like she is overwhelmed and stuck in her situation. I will look into CPS, but am of course fearful about
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    anonymity (I understand that is not an excuse not to report). I was looking at this as avoiding another rift with the neighbors, but the comments about ab were very eye opening to me, as neglect is a form of a se.. I appreciate being reminded of e that and am now thinking about
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    this much differently. I am going to move forward and do more than originally planned to create a barrier between the property lines and will let them know I'll be adding a post (we're talking literally a fence post size gap) to block kiddo from being able to
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    stick arms and face through. Our fence is a box fence so if you stand a certain way you have full view and he does stick his little hands between the posts in other areas, so it will be best just to prevent contact
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    along the entire fence line. I appreciate the tips on adding more of a barrier.. I will be implementing those, thank you to those who offered those suggestions.. I am taking them! Time to get to work!!
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    Electric_bugga_boo Absolutely nta - if kiddo got bitten, you're the one having to pay the price, likewise if something toxic ends up hurting the dogs. Block the fence and keep your pups safe. You are NOT responsible for mum's inattention, but you ARE responsible for your dogs.
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    jetblakc I think you're thinking about this all wrong. this isn't an issue of a h le or not, for your dog's safety you have to block that, yesterday.
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    The kid's life will not hinge on whether it has contact with your dog for some short period in toddlerhood.
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    Hopeful-Artichoke4... Toddlers should never, ever be allowed to interact with a dog unsupervised. I wouldn't give this a second thought- your property, your choice.
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    JuJu-Petti Great fences make great neighbors.

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